Hello I Aradhya is back with yet another topic Praisers and criticizers. Yes most of us have given our exams n some even have recieved the results. Some have awesome results, some have just passed and some failed. But whatever the result was we all faced 2 types of people praisers ( every ones favorite) and criticizes ( from whom everyone is favourite ).
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Well I guess you guys have got the idea of my post today . Student, what image does it brings a person wearing uniform and studying ( though some of us only) . Our life's most important as well as serious time is examination along with results and somehow we cross these their come a crowd of overfriendly and caring people ( relatives) . Ohhh no!!! there they are ready to judge us and what they say " very good you are very intelligent I wish my child was like you" or " good but you need to study more see my child". I mean like really , do we need comparison? no matter who, praisers or criticizers they will compare . Shouldn't we can be compared by ourselves. I mean if last time I got 60 in maths and this time it's 75 isn't it's good and if its 95 this time though last time it's 90 is it really damn amazing. Let's check the role of them.
Praisers usually praise us ofcourse but they also increase our confidence . We feel yes we have achieved something but some times they increased our confidence that much that we forgot to do hardwork.
Criticizers criticize us that we sometimes cry because we tried our best. We also want to achieve but it somehow not and we feel more guilty. But sometimes they give us a reason . A reason to live and shine. A reason to die and become quite.
Praisers usually praise us ofcourse but they also increase our confidence . We feel yes we have achieved something but some times they increased our confidence that much that we forgot to do hardwork.
Criticizers criticize us that we sometimes cry because we tried our best. We also want to achieve but it somehow not and we feel more guilty. But sometimes they give us a reason . A reason to live and shine. A reason to die and become quite.
Soo whose good I mean whose effect is much better. Logically it depends on us how we take them their sayings help us to rise more or we like to quit. But my favourite are criticizers you know why? Because they give a reason to fight with this whole world. You fight to change their preconceptions and you do it to prove yourself. No matter what they give you a reason. When a child unknown of anything is told that he can never b anything and will become a spoiled brat. That criticizer named him no matter what effect to him. He cries all day all night but than stand up for a fight. A fight with a person who is within him. A child who never had thinked of bringing average marks now topped his class. Why ? Because he want to change that name that was given to him by everyone. Soo my favorite are criticizers they give us will power to do something. But it all depends on us that we prove them wrong or just find a more easier way ( suicide). Guyz when you prove them wrong there is a different feeling that can never be defined and it end up in making us an amazing personality.
We know who we are actually and the power to change our destiny is in our hands others may play an important role but atlast its you who gonna decide your future.
" I have seen the faces changing but what worries me the most is that i am the same me. I try to rearrange everything but then when I see back its me only me"
Make the criticizers your praisers but never let your praisers be ur criticizers.
